If you're more than 60 miles, I wish you the best of luck.
I do build custom bondage furniture along with lingerie. She should enjoy receiving as well as giving oral, and enjoys multiple O's. Women a little more, but what's not to love! There are too many fakes on this site and its annoying to deal with.
I find ideal to be a moving target. I think life is too short to be anything but naked and touching other naked people.